Monday, July 28, 2014

Anniversary Trip Day 1

July 24, 2014
Destination: Palmdale, CA

We were up bright and early this morning, excited because the vacation we had been planning for so long was finally here! We knew for a long time that we wanted to celebrate our first anniversary "big", and while our plans had changed many times over the past months, we had finally decided on a trip to Santa Barbara, CA and Joshua Tree National Park. What were the deciding factors? Letterboxes. Anyone who's been on Atlas Quest this summer has probably heard about the Summer of Eevil. My husband has been hard at work deciphering clues, and since there aren't any Eevil boxes in Arizona, we needed a chance to go somewhere where we could find a few. We also had heard about an event that took place near Joshua Tree, and knew there were many quality carves and series out there. There also happened to be a Whispering Giant statue on the way, which we HAD to see. We had already been to San Diego and definitely wanted to avoid Los Angeles, and so Santa Barbara seemed like the best option.

We left home around 8:30 that morning. It was already starting to warm up in Tucson, and we were really looking forward to those mid-70 temps on the beach. Of course, we wouldn't be there until the next day, but we'd at least be at higher elevation in California and closer to the sea…that should make it cooler, we hoped.

And so our trip West began. We took the Phoenix bypass route, which is God's greatest gift to mankind, though when we saw signs for "West - Los Angeles, East - Phoenix" we realized that Phoenix is actually the lesser of 2 evils. No offense to anyone in those cities, we just dislike big cities!

Curtis had a good amount of letterboxes to grab on our way. Unfortunately, the rest area for the first was closed. Our first stop was in Quartzsite, AZ. It was around noon when we arrived, and we set out looking for our first box. It was supposed to be easy, but we had trouble finding all the landmarks referenced…not to mention, it was noon and extremely hot with no shade! We gave up after trying longer than we should have. We decided to go try for one more though, and thankfully it was a success.


Stopped here for a box!


After boxing here, we continued driving West. We started to smell something that smelled like rotten eggs or something, and made some jokes on Quartzsite for that. We fueled up the tank before crossing the border, knowing that gas prices could only go up from here!


Crossing the Colorado river!


Check points going into California, but not for those headed into Arizona...


Welcome to California! 


Let's be real here. Everyone says California is sooo great, Arizona's just a hot desert, but may I point out that the majority of Southern California is just like AZ, but with higher taxes and gas prices? It's not all LA and ocean. Still fun to visit the Pacific, and someday we'd love to go to the parks in Northern California, but it might be pretty low on our list of places we want to be stationed with the Navy.


Our first stop in California was Desert Hot Springs to visit Whispering Giant #27. We saw our first Giant statue on our honeymoon, and it seemed appropriate to see another while celebrating our anniversary! As we drove into town, we started noticing the same rotten egg smell as earlier, and wondered if the entire sewage system for all of LA was out here somewhere.


BIGGEST disappointment of the day: The Giant is in a museum (the only attraction in Desert Hot Springs), and the museum is only open 9-1 Wednesdays-Saturdays from May-October! We parked on the side of the road to look and take pictures. But it just wasn't enough. We started scheming then how we could rearrange our travel plans so that we could come back and see it up close.


Heartbreaking "closed" sign!! After this, we went and got back in the car. We realized that while we were outside, it smelled fine, but as soon as we got back into the Yeti the egg smell was back. We realized it was probably something in the engine. It was around 3 in the afternoon, but it felt like it was hotter now than it was in Quartzite at noon.

Now, a little more concerned than before, we headed out for a second box, on a road West of Desert Hot Springs, to middle of nowhere. It required pulling over on the side of the road, and Curtis ran out to  retrieve it, came back, and we logged in. The box had been further than where he thought, so he wanted to drive closer to put it away, but when he tried to start the truck, it didn't turn on! After trying several more times, he went to check out the engine and called his dad. They diagnosed the issue as the water in the battery had evaporated, leaving just the sulfuric acid which was making the egg smell. We called his insurance to get a tow truck. Thanks to letterboxing, we were pretty clear with giving directions, however they didn't understand and even with exact GPS coordinates, they didn't get it. 

But fear not, there are still wonderful people in this world! While we were on hold, a great man pulled over and came out with two large bottles of cold water, and asked what he could do to help. He told us it was 113 degrees and we should NOT be out here! Curtis asked if he could help try to jump start the car to see if it would start, and it did! We thanked him, then headed back to Desert Hot Springs. We debated whether we should go there or head even farther South to Palm Springs since it was a bigger town and we had more chances of finding an Autozone or somewhere to buy a battery. Palm Springs won, and it took just 20 minutes to get into town. 

We drove around for a while, hoping and praying we would come across a place, but finally pulled into a Starbucks to use the internet to help. (Neither of us have smartphones so we were relying on a tablet. We're realizing smartphones have their advantages…and our phones are so dumb, both decided to run out of battery too. Awesome!) I typed in "auto repair" into Google maps and we again started driving around, hoping one could help us out. I now realize I should have searched for "Auto parts" instead, because now it was around 5 and most repair places were closing. Not only was the battery fried, our engine was also overheating at this point. We finally came to an open repair shop, and the owner was kind enough to direct us to an Autozone. Thank God they had what we needed, and Curtis is great with working with his truck, so our battery was replaced in less than a half hour. Whew!

Our concern now was that what if there was something else wrong with the car that caused the water in the battery to drain? Only time would tell if we gave a good organ to a dying car that no one could save. We also wondered if we could have fixed it by pouring water into the old battery…but in heat like this and on a weekend trip, we really didn't want to risk anything else. For now, we were happy that the car started and no longer smelled bad. Another way to look at this is that all this happened around the rush hour, which means we didn't have to drive around LA during what could be the worst possible time…we really don't know what we missed out on, but we were happy to not have to find out! It was busy enough even after 7 for us.


I got Curtis a Coke to help make it the rest of the way. Except they didn't have a "Curtis". Understandable…but how on earth did they not have "Jessica"?!? We had to settle for Alex. :)


We were hoping to get glimpses of the ocean, but LA is just too big. We were still 80 miles away from the Pacific. At least we saw a pretty sunset over mountains.


You might think we're crazy, but even after what we'd been through, boxers gotta box! Pulled over at another "middle-of-nowhere" to get our third box of the day.


Then we jumped back on the interstate, hoping to complete the last leg of the journey to Palmdale, but we missed the exit and had to go another 8 miles before turning around. No big deal…but they were 8 miles uphill, through a construction zone, stop and go traffic, engine started to overheat, couldn't use air conditioning… We were definitely ready to be done with driving for the day!


But God is good, we made it to Palmdale and even got one more box. We had much to be thankful for at the end of the day, but also had to trust that God would keep us safe through the rest of the trip. Yeti is a nice truck and still gets us to where we need to go, we just have to put up with little things…like no air conditioning. No big deal. ;)

End Day 1: About 530 miles driven; found 4 boxes

Sunday, July 27, 2014

One Year

July 27, 2014 ~ Our first anniversary!

 

And what a wonderful year it has been! Filled with adventures, change, happiness, silliness, learning new things, traveling new places, going beyond my comfort zone, and always having my best friend by my side to enjoy life with. We've been so blessed this year. We just celebrated with an extra long weekend adventure that I'll be writing about throughout the week. It included road trips, yummy food, lots of walking, tons of letterboxes, a giant statue, problems, prayers, relaxing, and enjoying married life - basically describing our year. Check back soon to read more! :)

Today was filled with memories of our wedding day. I thought about the butterflies in my stomach, and was thankful that I didn't have to go on stage in front of people like I did last year. I thought about our families and friends and how I missed them. I thought about seeing Curtis for the first time for our first look and being so unbelievably happy, then seeing him cry while I walked down the aisle and feeling even happier still. I remembered how in love I felt while I listened to him try to keep from crying while saying his vows, and even more so when he sang to me. I remembered the feeling of excitement and wondering what a life being married to him would look like. And now, I'm even more happy and in love with him than ever, and I'm loving how our marriage works. I can't wait to spend the next 110 years with him. ;)


Reflecting on our past year of marriage, here are our highlights from the past year, July 27 2013 to today.


July: Our wedding day; brunch with our families; leaving for our honeymoon; staying in a lighthouse B&B


August: Honeymoon continued - Minnesota, Canada, Michigan, & more; week with families; moving to Arizona; going as far North as Nipigon, Canada, to Nogales, AZ in the span of 2 weeks


September: feeling at home in our apartment; exploring Tucson; making new friends; a 5 mile hike; discovering Krispy Kremes was only 2 hours from us



October: the Albuquerque Balloon Festival; National Letterboxing Week; San Diego for my 21st; learning how to make fancy adult beverages



November: First letterboxing event together; touring Cochise county; 
Thanksgiving with family; discovering the puppy store near our home



December: Curtis passed first semester of Jr year even as a married man; getting awesome Christmas gifts for each other; going back to Iowa to spend Christmas with families (7 homes in 7 days!)



January: Going to Missouri & Illinois to watch my sister kick butt in basketball (not literally); buying our first hiking boots and doing a 14 mile hike that almost killed me (not literally); no snow and beautiful weather every day


February: Tucson Letterboxing Event; weekend trips to Rincon Mountains, Madera Canyon and Globe with friends; making my first ever homemade sushi rolls; 7 mile hike


March: visiting Patagonia Lake; planning our first spring break vacation; going on "Great Southwest Adventure" with my brother Grant all over the Northern half of Arizona; seeing Lydia & Jeff in Phoenix; discovering the best sushi EVER


April: Letterboxing event/weekend in Flagstaff/Jerome/Cottonwood with friends; Curtis finally turning 21, hiking 6 miles to visit ghost towns with friends; making my 2014 goal of finding 500 letterboxes


May: hiking 7 miles on Pontatoc trail then conquering Mt. Wrightson (10 miles); visiting Organ Pipe Cactus; learning to drive stick shift; driving 30 hours straight and surprising our families in Iowa; letterboxing event in Iowa; spending a full week with family!



June: Completing our goal of visiting all 15 Arizona counties; hiking Red Ridge Trail; mastering Mt. Humphreys and our tour of the greater Flagstaff area; visiting Kartchner Caverns; getting to experience some great AZ heat


July: finding ways to still have fun adventures with the heat; helping Jeff & Lydia move to Phoenix; discovering the greatest cheesecake recipe ever; gold panning and Kitt Peak; celebrating one awesome year together with an amazing vacation!

We are so blessed. Tonight I'm thanking God for this amazing year, and praying that with this coming year we'll grow even closer to Him and each other as we continue on with the adventures, change, and love!

Saturday, July 26, 2014

Wedding Rehearsal Memories

Today, I'm remembering all the excitement that was going on this day last year. I'm remembering the anxiousness that I was feeling, but most of all the happiness and love that was all around. Our wedding weekend was finally here, and all there was left to do was enjoy it…oh, and get married! :)

The day started with setting up the church. The sanctuary for our service, the main foyer for the reception, and the youth room for the rehearsal dinner. I like simplicity. I like not driving around. We had all our events take place at the church that weekend.

After ironing table cloths, setting up tables & chairs, finishing the decorations, and finalizing set up for it all, our family and wedding party started to arrive.


What happens when little girls get access to a big, mostly-empty church! The little girls played school. :)


They also had the very important job of making sure a wheelchair could fit between all tables & chairs for fire safety. They took their job seriously…for the most part ;)


Gabby and Mitch were there from Tucson, and did so much to help out that weekend! We were so thankful & happy to have them there. :)


Little girls again, this time at the front "welcome" area with the sign my mother-in-law Julie made.


Curtis, writing his vows last minute… Ok, they were already written, he just needed them on a notecard. :)


The girls are all here! Now waiting for the service to start. :)


Curtis & his guys!


Yeah, I was a little excited! 


My beautiful mother & I…and a very important document in that folder!

Now onto the rehearsal pictures taken by my mother-in-law, Julie! First a run through of the ceremony and recessional, then practicing the whole thing from start to finish.





Guy line up - Joel J. is barefoot, and it appears that David and Joel S' feet are broken!


Girl line up - much better ;)


Take this imaginary ring and put it on her finger...


Signing the document with invisible pens…it's not official yet!


I now pronounce you unofficially married!


Should we practice how fast we're going to run out of here?


How cute are my siblings though?!




Come on Joel, smile!!


Now practicing the processional with music!


Lovely mothers practicing delivering the sand to the alter, that we would later pour into the hourglass (but just for pretend tonight!)







Daddy & I…walking in to the opening song, "Dawn," from Pride and Prejudice. It's our favorite movie. :)


Yeah…I was smiling like that all weekend! 


My parents! At this point, I didn't know they had put together a whole video for the "giving away the bride" part. Instead, dad said the lines that a normal FOB would say. I was definitely surprised on my wedding day. :)


Beautiful maid of honor, and junior maid of honor!


"You may now high-five the bride!" Haha great picture captured by Julie!


We are now…Curtis J. and Jessica S…still?


One last look of the stage, all ready for tomorrow!

And now for the best part… the rehearsal dinner! I'm sure everyone who was there can agree with that. My in-law's worked hard & did a great job when the caterer fell through last minute, and we had some wonderful friends who made us 6  DELICIOUS CHEESECAKES!!


Seriously, I can't say enough good things about these wonderful homemade cheesecakes. I wish I could go back in time to this day just so I can eat more and enjoy them without the butterflies in my stomach! 


Our amazing friends, Elise and Lori, that made all of these for us. I hope that one day I can make cheesecakes that taste and look as great as these!


The set up was quite lovely as well, I wasn't in here at all but I'm sure my mother-in-law played a huge part in the creativity and decorating!


The youth room, all set up and ready for around 40 people!


The center table for Curtis & I with our parents!


Pulled pork, cheesy mashed potatoes, baked beans, and veggies were on the menu! I went heavy on the veggies and skipped the beans, with it being the night before my wedding and all. ;)


Now for some candid shots of our family, bridal party, and other helpers socializing.


The youngest and cutest attendee of the night! This day was especially exciting because we also found out that she would be getting a new little sibling! :)


Above are some of our wonderful helpers, we are so blessed to have them in our lives!

Below are pictures of our families - we love you all and were so thankful we got to celebrate with all of you!









Last picture together before our wedding day ;) Here's us with our thumbprint tree that we used as an alternative guest book. I painted the trunk of the tree on the canvas, and we started that night with having our relatives stamp their thumbs with the green ink. The red apples/hearts are us, (center) parents, (directly above) and our grandparents (on either side). It's now totally full from the wedding day and hanging in our apartment. I love the visual reminder on our wall of all those people that came, supported, and celebrated with us that day!

Thanks to our family, friends, and helpers who made this day such a wonderful memory for us. :)